BTW...I Failed To Mention

Before literally dragging myself off to bed, I failed to mention that with all this moving stuff going on that I was released as the Gospel Doctrine Teacher last week. Waahoo! However, I was "asked" (yeah right, "asked", more like commanded, assumed I would with no backtalk, etc.), to give a talk tomorrow in Sacrament Meeting. Holy, moly - it ain't tomorrow no more - it's now today!!!

Anyway, you try packing all week long and fitting in time for talk preparation. We could have the world's shortest Sacrament Meeting tomorrow. Then Joe and I can come home and finish packing.

Seriously though, when I sat down to put pen to paper, I found the perfect thought for my talk that was given by Thomas S. Monson at the October conference. I will, of course, be expanding on what he said, but it struck just the perfect cord for me. So, here in it's abbreviated form...

"One of the most inevitable aspects of our lives here upon the earth is change. At one time or another we’ve all heard some form of the familiar adage: “Nothing is as constant as change.” I, on the other hand, like to voice from time to time that I would like to have a normal life. That I would like to be like normal people. However, I have discovered that the only thing normal in life is the setting on a clothes dryer.

Throughout our lives, we must deal with change. Some changes are welcome; some are not. There are changes in our lives which are sudden, such as the unexpected passing of a loved one, an unforeseen illness, the loss of a possession we treasure. But most of the changes take place subtly and slowly.

This week I have been reflecting back on my days here in the Tifton Ward...
1965 while visiting grandparents
Expansion of chapel - branch to ward
Newly wed married by Bishop Flanders (Pictures)
Various callings
New mother
Divorce
New marriage
People who have been born and died

Day by day, minute by minute, second by second we went from where we were to where we are now. The lives of all of us, of course, go through similar alterations and changes. The difference between the changes in my life and the changes in yours is only in the details. Time never stands still; it must steadily march on, and with the marching come the changes.

This is our one and only chance at mortal life—here and now. The longer we live, the greater is our realization that it is brief. Opportunities come, and then they are gone. I believe that among the greatest lessons we are to learn in this short sojourn upon the earth are lessons that help us distinguish between what is important and what is not. I plead with you not to let those most important things pass you by as you plan for that illusive and nonexistent future when you will have time to do all that you want to do. Instead, find joy in the journey—now. Sign in bathroom - Blest is the man who finds joy in the journey.

If you have children who are grown and gone, in all likelihood you have occasionally felt pangs of loss and the recognition that you didn’t appreciate that time of life as much as you should have. Of course, there is no going back, but only forward. Rather than dwelling on the past, we should make the most of today, of the here and now, doing all we can to provide pleasant memories for the future.

If you are still in the process of raising children, be aware that the tiny fingerprints that show up on almost every newly cleaned surface, the toys scattered about the house, the piles and piles of laundry to be tackled will disappear all too soon and that you will—to your surprise—miss them profoundly. Dad’s saying…100 years from now, you’ll never know the difference.

Les’ death - missing out on opportunities with Corey and Derek

Stresses in our lives come regardless of our circumstances. We must deal with them the best we can. But we should not let them get in the way of what is most important—and what is most important almost always involves the people around us. Often we assume that they must know how much we love them. But we should never assume; we should let them know.

Send that note to the friend you’ve been neglecting; give your child a hug; give your parents a hug; say “I love you” more; always express your thanks. Never let a problem to be solved become more important than a person to be loved. Friends move away, children grow up, loved ones pass on. It’s so easy to take others for granted, until that day when they’re gone from our lives and we are left with feelings of “what if” and “if only.” Said author Harriet Beecher Stowe, “The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone.

Grateful for friends and family that have supported me in my lifetime.

A friend gave me a little plaque one day which said…
“When one door closes, another opens; (but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us).” Alexander Graham Bell

Gratitude for:
Power of prayer
Priesthood blessings
Principle of tithing
Opportunities to serve
Compassionate service of friends

I hope that my neighbors will look upon me as a good example of the Church and what it means to be a good person.

Let us relish life as we live it, find joy in the journey, and share our love with friends and family. One day each of us will run out of tomorrows.

So there is my talk in a nutshell. Hopefully, my mind will be fresh and alert (yeah, right - fat chance) and I can say things that keep coming to my mind.
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I am going to request that we sing "God Be With You Till We Meet Again" as that was always sung at our little branch in Japan when it was the last Sunday for a family and brings back wonderful memories for me.